During this pandemic, we’ve had a lot of solitude, probably much more than any of us wanted. Our shut-in time has shed a radiant light on us both relationally and personally. Our families have gotten closer, or haven’t. And our sense of self has heightened, or hasn’t…

Whether by choice or by force, we have been given the opportunity to take a closer look at what matters to us, what distracts us, and maybe even what we like and don’t like about ourselves.

With all that has happened, how would you say you are handling each new day? And most of all, what do you think of your performance?

Like a movie, a sporting game, or a meal, we rank and review what we experienced. We love letting others know how well they did, or not.

What about you? How are YOU doing?

The spotlight is now on you.

Would you say you are performing well: helping where needed, responding appropriately to conflict, or having a good attitude when things aren’t going your way?

While the year is still considered “new,” go ahead and do a self-assessment to see how you came through January. Do you need to apologize to anyone? Do you need to give more of your time to your personal projects? Should you work on being more present and interactive with the ones you love? Did you fall off your healthy eating and exercise routine? On the flip side, are you feeling pretty good because you know you are handling your business? Have your relationships blossomed and strengthened? Have you been able to complete many of the things on your to-do list? Are you being kind to yourself and making good choices?

As you self-assess, remember to use the same criteria that you’ve been using this past month on others that have fallen under your critical eye. If you’re honest, I’m hoping you come away from this exercise feeling good about where you are.

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